On Second Chances
In life. In love. In the kitchen cabinet.
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I stack my cereal/soup bowls inside of my kitchen cabinets. I have a few different sizes. About a month ago, a smaller bowl got lodged inside of a larger one. I tried relentlessly to get it unstuck — ran the bowls under hot water, twisted, and turned. It didn’t budge. For weeks now, I’ve been putting clean bowls back into the cabinet and just putting the pair of wonky, stuck bowls on top of the stack. (Pretty silly, I know.) I wondered if I should just toss the duo. “You have other bowls,” I thought to myself.
Yesterday, I decided to pick up the duo again. Within not even 10 seconds of finagling, they came unstuck.
… I think this happens a lot in life. We put a certain thing — or maybe even a person — into a box. The “bad” bowls, in the above example. Perhaps a more practical life application: A “needy” friend. The “worst” kind of workout. An “annoying” boss. The “unflattering” jeans. The “friend zone.” But what if we remove the label? What if we just give that thing or relationship just a little more energy — or another try — and see what happens?
A second chance.
Just some odd food for thought, today. Happy weekending, and I’ll see you all on Monday for the premiere of Season 8 (!!) with guest Emma Coburn.
Talk soon,
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HIGHLIGHTS OF THE WEEK
What I’m Watching: Tick, Tick, Boom!
I loved Jonathan Larson’s Rent. Fun fact: I had a brief stint in musical theater (do not be fooled, I don’t have a good singing voice) — and would almost always use “Take Me or Leave Me” as my audition song. I didn’t know much of Larson’s story (the basis for this film, an adaptation from the Broadway musical). The music definitely has a Rent vibe, and Andrew Garfield is phenomenal.
What I’m Reading: Will by Will Smith with Mark Munson
This would make an excellent gift. I’m really digging this memoir, which is no surprise because I find Will Smith himself so interesting and uber inspiring. Oprah called it “the best memoir I’ve ever read,” which takes the reader from Smith’s upbringing in Philadelphia through his rap and acting career.
What I’m Listening To: "I'm Going Through a Breakup, and It's Super Hard" from Press Send with Chinae Alexander
Chinae and I met a few years ago in the early days of Hurdle (you can listen to her episode, here). I really appreciate Chinae's honesty when talking about something that is so hard. I share her sentiments around the importance of cultivating great friendships while you are in a romantic relationship. It's been a few years since I was in a relationship, but that’s something that has always been a priority for me.
Gear I’m Wearing: 6-Pack Performance Cushion Low Cut with Tab Socks from New Balance
Come winter, I mostly opt for low-cut socks with full-length tights. It’s a comfort thing (I don’t love multiple layers on my ankles), and I don’t mind a smidge of my ankle being exposed. I love these ones from New Balance because they’re a little on the thicker side and have really held up in the laundry cycle. I wear them so often that I buy them in this six pack! Looking for a wool option? Tracksmith has a merino no-show option that’s pretty great.
Quote I’m Loving: “Be so busy watering your own grass to notice if someone else’s is greener.” (I definitely saw this scrolling this week, and it stuck with me. Like I said last week, don’t let comparison steal your joy.)
Don’t Forget to Check Out: HURDLE SESSIONS!
How to Start (and Stay!) Running
How to Take Your Running to the Next Level
Intro to Freelance Writing
Intro to Podcasting
How to Turn Your Side Hustle Into Your Main Gig
Finding Your Power Alone
How to Build a Social Media Presence
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